Is My Toddler a Late Talker? What Parents Should Know (and Do)
- Nikki McRory, MA CCC-SLP, BCBA

- Sep 5
- 3 min read

If you’ve ever found yourself worrying about whether your toddler is a “late talker,” you’re not alone. It’s natural to compare your child’s words to those of siblings, cousins, or other kids at playdates, and sometimes these differences spark concern. Many parents notice that some toddlers say just a handful of words at age two, while others are already stringing together short sentences—these variations are common and understandable.
So, what’s typical, what might be a red flag, and what can you do to help? Let’s take a closer look.
Why Language Milestones Matter
Language is more than just talking. From the very first babbles and gestures, your child is learning to:
Connect with you and others
Share their needs, feelings, and ideas
Explore and understand the world around them
When communication takes longer to develop, it may impact other areas of growth — social confidence, frustration tolerance, and early learning. But here’s the hopeful news: early support works. Parents play a powerful role in helping toddlers find their voices.
What’s “Typical” Speech & Language Development?
While each child is unique, speech and language development tends to follow general patterns. For example:
Around the first birthday, many toddlers babble with different sounds and use simple gestures like waving.
By the second birthday, you might hear a burst of new words or even two-word combinations like “want juice.”
By age three, children are often stringing short sentences together and are easier to understand.
Some kids race ahead; others take a slower path — and both can be normal. What matters most is that your child is moving forward in their communication.✨

When to Consider Support
Sometimes “late talking” is simply a variation of typical development. But in other cases, it’s worth reaching out to a pediatric speech-language pathologist. You may want to check in if:
Your toddler isn’t using any words by around 16–18 months
They rarely point, wave, or imitate what you do
They don’t seem to understand familiar words or directions
Your gut tells you something feels off
Trust your instincts — you know your child best. Reaching out early can give you peace of mind and ensure your child gets the support they need.
Simple Things Parents Can Try at Home
The best strategies for late talkers are often the simplest — and they fit right into daily routines. For example:
Follow your child’s lead: Join in their play instead of directing it.
Narrate daily life: Talk about what’s happening in the moment, like “putting shoes on” or “washing hands”.
Offer choices: Ask “blue cup or red cup?” instead of yes/no questions.
These small shifts create more opportunities for your toddler to notice, understand, and eventually use new words.
✨ In my free mini-course, I’ll show you how to use these strategies step by step, with real-life examples and video demonstrations.
FAQs Parents Often Ask
Does being bilingual cause late talking? No. Bilingual children may mix languages, but learning multiple languages does not cause delays.
Do late talkers always “catch up”? Many toddlers who start talking later do go on to develop language skills within the typical range. But not all children follow that path — and that’s okay. Every child’s journey is unique. The most important thing is to pay attention to your child’s progress and reach out for guidance if you’re unsure. Getting support early can make a big difference and give you peace of mind.
When should I contact a speech therapist? If you’re worried, don’t wait. Even one consultation can help clarify whether your child is on track or could benefit from support.
You Don’t Have to Figure This Out Alone
Parenting a toddler comes with enough questions — wondering about their language development doesn’t have to be one of them.
That’s why I created Let’s Talk: Understanding and Supporting Your Late-Talking Toddler — a free mini-course designed for caregivers like you. Inside, you’ll get:
A clear breakdown of milestones by age
Easy-to-use checklists and resources
Video lessons showing practical strategies in action
Step-by-step guidance to support your child’s communication every day
Because when it comes to your child’s voice, you deserve clarity and confidence — not guesswork.
Final Thoughts
Not every toddler who talks late has a long-term delay, but knowing what’s typical, what to watch for, and how to help can make all the difference. With the right tools, you can turn everyday moments into opportunities for language growth.
Your child has so much to say — let’s give them the support they need to share it with the world.




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